dating

Text Messages & Genital Adjustment

כ״ה בטבת ה׳תש״ע (Monday 11 January 2010)

“Dear Prudence” is not my favorite advice column by a long shot, but it’s the one that I just happened to read, so I’m going to comment on it now. One woman writes that she is “28-year-old single woman, … tired of being asked out on dates via text message,” and goes on to explain [...]

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Divorce

י״ז בכסלו ה׳תש״ע (Friday 4 December 2009)

It happened suddenly. I worked closely with a certain guy for a couple years. We were on the same team in a job with some customer service orientation. He was phenomenally good at dealing with the clients. He’s a problem-solver; he loves to help people. He is gentle, progressive and generous to a fault. He [...]

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Girl Profile: SK

ט׳ בכסלו ה׳תש״ע (Thursday 26 November 2009)

I met SK online. She is a few years older than I am. Notably, she’s past the important 30 mark. Though I’ve dated a bunch of older girls, that was when I was younger, and I’ve never before dated anyone over 30. We only exchanged very few messages before she just gave me her phone [...]

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Nice-to-meet-you Kissing

י״ג במרחשון ה׳תש״ע (Saturday 31 October 2009)

I grew up in a civilized country (viz, America) where everyone feels like they have plenty of space, so people don’t crowd around and touch each other that often. When they meet each other, they stand back and stick out their arms for a handshake, but they make sure to do it in such a [...]

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Girl Profile: AB

ז׳ במרחשון ה׳תש״ע (Sunday 25 October 2009)

I met AB online. She’s about a year and a half younger than I am. She’s born and bred in Israel and from a half-Mashhadi, half-Libyan family. We had some distant friends in common and barely chatted at all before deciding to meet almost immediately for coffee. The conversation on our first date went really [...]

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